In my family, there is great fondness for Pete Buttigieg. Those half-whispered cool-as-ice takedowns on CNN and Fox News. The slightly embarrassing obsession he has for "the Dave Matthews Band." We sometimes listen multiple times to "Buttigieg sound bytes"--as if we're replaying (and re-replaying) a Whitney Houston riff. We really enjoyed his recent personal essay. A personal essay from Pete Buttigieg! He had been targeted by a right-wing nut. Someone made a false claim to Child Protection Services--and Buttigieg was forcibly separated from his family and required to stay in a hotel overnight. Buttigieg is not Nora Ephron; the essay is not overflowing with glittery observations. But it is plainspoken, and I imagine it has helped to "open" many, many eyes. The Pete Buttigieg philosophy seems to be "keep calm and carry on." I'm sometimes able to listen--but not on Sunday nights, when I inevitably feel anxious and choose (unwisely) to eat a...
Matthew Quick has just written his first memoir--and it's notable. Sometimes a memoir can seem guarded or self-serving, but Quick lets it all hang out. Having written "Silver Linings Playbook," Quick anticipates a Hollywood career. He writes some screenplays. Nothing goes anywhere. He finds himself blocked. This coincides with a period of bad eating and excessive drinking--until Quick no longer recognizes himself. He begins to consider suicide. As Quick struggles to pull himself together, he considers the life of a compelling secondary character, his own father. Quick Senior has severe panic attacks. He disrupts a theatrical performance because he believes he has dropped his wallet; he begins shouting at the ushers. Once the wallet is retrieved, he cannot offer thanks. Having started to succumb to senility, Senior begins ranting about his wife. If she visits the grandkids for one night, it must mean that she has opted for a divorce. Senior also shuts down in terror when...