In my family, there is great fondness for Pete Buttigieg. Those half-whispered cool-as-ice takedowns on CNN and Fox News. The slightly embarrassing obsession he has with "the Dave Matthews Band." We sometimes listen multiple times to "Buttigieg sound bytes"--as if we're replaying (and re-replaying) a Whitney Houston riff. We really enjoyed his recent personal essay. A personal essay from Pete Buttigieg! He had been targeted by a right-wing nut. Someone made a false claim to Child Protection Services--and Buttigieg was forcibly separated from his family and required to stay in a hotel overnight. Buttigieg is not Nora Ephron; the essay is not overflowing with glittery observations. But it is plainspoken, and I imagine it has helped to "open" many, many eyes. The Pete Buttigieg philosophy seems to be "keep calm and carry on." I'm sometimes able to listen--but not on Sunday nights, when I inevitably feel anxious and choose (unwisely) to eat ...