People who act as surrogates are mentally unstable and impoverished; they're all from one race, and it isn't white; they are weak and easily exploited. In addition to being false, this seems deeply condescending toward people who act as surrogates, but it's a position you'll see in reader comments in the NYTimes. There's frequent use of the adjective "poor," which seems like a misnomer and also seems inherently patronizing. * Adoption is easy, and gay people who don't adopt are unspeakably selfish. I'm stunned by the number of straight people who ask, in the NYT, "Why not just adopt?" How often is this question asked of straight people? * Gay people feel entitled to have children, absurdly. Nope. No one is "entitled" to have children. But if you can try, and you'd like to try, and you have people who want to help, and can help in a safe and compensated way--then why not try? * Gay people are crazed hedonists, just look...