A favorite character of mine, right now, is the fictional actor Sam Fox, played by Pamela Adlon, on "Better Things."
Adlon almost won the Emmy--twice--for this role. The show itself recently ranked among the top comedies of this current century, according to the NYTimes.
Sam Fox has a crazy British mother--one of the lost souls from "The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel"--and she has three needy daughters. The father is basically not around. In one of the show's great scenes, the father pops up to say he will be taking a job in the neighborhood, for the summer, a very high-profile job. Fox reasonably believes the guy is making this announcement because he wants to request more time to spend with the kids.
The guy clears his throat. Actually, this request is *not* the purpose of the dinner. The guy doesn't want to spend *any* time with the kids, and he fears bumping into them while on the job, and he just wants his ex to invent a diplomatic way to tell the kids that "Daddy's mysterious presence doesn't indicate a large block of new Daddy/daughter time, though in his heart Daddy does want to see you, though there is no evidence to support this claim."
Once Sam has found a way to say all this to the daughters, then Sam is to deliver the message. The guy can't be bothered.
Sam draws our attention to the shittiness of men in other ways. She counsels her oldest daughter not to spend time with a "lying turdball," then directly intervenes with the turdball, then attempts the inevitable: Assist your daughter when the turdball breaks her heart. Sam loses her shot at an impressive script because--at the final moment--Rachel McAdams expresses interest. (We might struggle to see how Rachel McAdams's dramatic skills overlap with Sam's, but of course McAdams is a beautiful Hollywood star, and men are calling the shots.)
Despite many travails, Sam maintains generally high spirits. She has a protracted play-battle with one daughter, which involves an elderly woman playing dead. Sam attends a school function and speaks bluntly to a group of mortified tweens about her period. ("Raise your hands if you're here tonight and you've started bleeding! Raise your hands if you've *stopped* bleeding--permanently!") Sam also offers wise thoughts to a teen in crisis: "No one actually knows what she is doing--ever. Maybe you'll have a career, and maybe you'll just have a crappy day job. And even if you just have a crappy day job, you'll still find reasons to enjoy yourself, because this is life, and life is sort of consistently interesting....."
Quietly subversive, unusual for TV. Good stuff.
♥️ Better Things forever
ReplyDeleteI love it all so much.
Sam to teen daughter: "When you constantly say I HATE YOU--? It starts to lose its power." Daughter to Sam: "You're short and old. And you when you constantly burst into tears? It starts to lose its power....."
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